Cheat sheet

Sources as of 2026-10. This is not medical or legal advice.

Signs of the “one to one” step

• Time to step up: people come back and bring friends; the same questions repeat; almost no free hours left.
• Too early: you cannot explain your approach in five minutes; after a session you are left with “I don't know what to do with this”.
• A ceiling: the signs of “up” are there, but you cannot take the step.

Two columns of the map

• From the method: what repeats and what the client can name themselves.
• From the relationship: attention, trust, the feeling of being listened to.
• A bond becomes a ceiling when the “from the method” column is empty.

The edge of competence

• For weeks the problem has been getting in the way of daily life.
• The work is not moving.
• Several signs of distress at once, not one.
• Signals in you: “more than I can handle”, the client depends on you too much.
• The decision is the client's, except when there is a risk of harm to themselves or others.
• Do not diagnose. Notice and refer. Danger right now — the emergency service.

The limit formulas

• Revenue of the week = (client hours − unpaid cancellations) × price of a session.
• Price of a working hour = revenue of the week ÷ (client hours + hours outside sessions).
• Ceiling of the week = limit of client hours × price of a session.
• Within the step you grow by price or by hours. Above the ceiling, only by format.

A method on one page

• A step = action + why + minutes.
• For two: yes / with a change / no.

The plan of a meeting for 2–7

• Form: a mini-group of your clients, a couple or a family, apprenticeship.
• Three selection criteria: a similar request, readiness to hear others, no signs from the edge of competence.
• Each current client gets their own conversation.
• The sign of success is named before the meeting.
• In “My map”: “my own format”, a date, and in the “Sign” field the sign that the step worked.